No. 1, No. 2 and No. 3

No. 1 is the wife.

No. 2 is the mistress, which I am.

No. 3 is the woman who now makes him happy as I, like No. 1, does not interest him anymore. This girl is now the woman you once were. Vibrant, exciting, no-emotional baggage, non-demanding etc. This is now the woman he lies for with you. This is the woman you want to be again but its too late as you’ve now became No. 1 in essence without knowing it.

You are now the woman who chose to be content with the very little time he wants to spend with you as he has just added one agenda on his list of family, work, friends, interest, No. 3 and No. 2. (in order).

I guess the question is “How can you be No. 3 while being No. 2?”

Published in: on May 27, 2007 at 10:14 pm  Comments (6)  

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  1. I caught your blog while tag surfing. It came to mind later when I was running errands, particularly the post “Etiquette for Mistresses.”

    I’ve always thought that if wives were more like mistresses, our marriages would have a lot less infidelity. As you say: Remember that wives demand and mistresses demand less.

    I like your writing here. Very honest and real.

  2. Thank you Hope for appreciating this site.

    I assume you are married?

    I wish you love!

  3. No. 1, No. 2, No. 3,

    WHY!!?? do we keep so many numbers as well? why men need so many numbers…why cant they just be satisfied, why they look for better and then even better…


    can i become 3 again?

  4. i guess the cliche is true then, that once a cheater, always a cheater. do you agree?
    further more, if he cheats with you, he may cheat on you as well. it’s become a habit, a hard habit to break. he’s gonna do it one two many times til he finally finds his match, his exact equivalent and eventually break his heart hard enough to make him want to change his ways. we can only pervently hope…

    “the sky isn’t really the same when you see it alone.”


  5. i would never wish a broken heart and pain for him.


  6. Men never seem to be satisfied. it doesnt matter how much you cater to there needs they always seem to stay looking from the corner of their eyes at the next one.

    For those of you who have read a little about my situation. its apparent why i feel the way i do.

    I’m not bitter or angry just cautious in this type of life style… As a female we can’t put ourselves out there to much because then you are the one who is going to get hurt. remember he goes home to his wife while you are sitting there lonely. i know this because i am a mistress and i chose this way of life…but for how long i really cant say there is so many things going on right now in my mm life. Its really crazy…

    but for now i still remain there… devoted…somewhat…lol

    to all ya’ll out there who are in this type of relationship be cautious and don’t demand to much from your mm. Just enjoy the time you have.. much luv xoxox

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